The email, Instant Message, and Direct Message (or DM for short) has been the bane of many females existence since A.O.L. was a thing. “Sliding into the DM’s” is a recent term, but it refers to something as old as time, an interested party privately contacting you in order to achieve some manner of sexual goal. Honestly, this is all a way to politely say that sometimes people are reaching out just trying to f*ck, and no one gets this more than individuals in the adult film industry. Some of their horror stories are incredible, check the method below.